Ask A Therapist: Struggling with Donor Conceived Son’s Boundaries
A recipient parent struggles with the boundaries his donor conceived son has created around sharing information about siblings and the donor.
A recipient parent struggles with the boundaries his donor conceived son has created around sharing information about siblings and the donor.
When Edward Miles became a parent, he realized that his lack of information as a donor conceived person not only impacted him but now his own child as well.
Casey Duncan is the recipient parent to two donor conceived people. One of them was “switched before birth.”
A recipient parent wonders how to fix a strained relationship with her child after failing to respond to the child's curiosity about the donor while growing up.
A parent wonders how to convince their wife that they should reach out to their sperm donors for the sake of their children.
An intended parent wonders whether it is possible to do single parenthood by choice "right."
Parents who want to keep donor conception a secret are usually trying to protect their child from emotional and relationship distress, but secrets are no guarantee of protection. Just as anonymity is hard to protect for a lifetime, genetic information is hard to keep secret for a lifetime.