Ask A Therapist: Struggling with Donor Conceived Son’s Boundaries
A recipient parent struggles with the boundaries his donor conceived son has created around sharing information about siblings and the donor.
A recipient parent struggles with the boundaries his donor conceived son has created around sharing information about siblings and the donor.
The holidays can be a joyous time, and they can certainly also bring a unique stress for families who had help to become parents.
"I joke with people that my first thought was, 'I’ve been diluted.' And as humorous as it may be to joke that finding out I was half white contributed to a sense of identity or cultural 'dilution,' it simultaneously created an incomparable sadness that took years to deconstruct."
Eric turned to DNA testing to learn more about his complicated family history but his results yielded more surprises than answers.
Deciding to use donor sperm or eggs is often a result of a fertility complication. In this emotional process, the consideration of how donor conceived people (DCP) will feel about their conception is often overlooked.